Called websense support after following everything on their support pages.
Had to take out 'WebsenseDb' account from the local admin group, bcos the websense policy database service was starting and stopping with the message that it had nothing to do.
After taking of the account from the local admin group, it remained in started mode.
Policy broker was started next,
and the rest after that
Any explanation on how the about would make a different to the service would be great help.